[Say the following sentence(s) in your best old person voice] "When we were young we didn't have all these electronic do dads, we read books not facebooked, we had to entertain ourselves with whatever we found in the neighbor's trash. Hell, we could have fun in a closet with nothing more than a rock and a pot holder."

These days, people want to be entertained rather than being creative and entertaining themselves.  This is a problem that needs solving because it will affect your relationships and over all happiness 

  Men, for the most part, have more hobbies, sports, and activities than do "most" women. Just look at all the stuff us guys leave laying around ;-) . If you were to break into my house, you would be looking down the barrel of a 12 gage shotgun, but you would also see surfboards, ice skates, golf clubs, fly fishing gear, a kayak, mountain bike, roller blades, a slingshot, and thousands of vinyl albums.  The point? I entertain myself. Rarely have I met a woman that has as many interests as I do. Moreover, men want to be introduced to new things and genuinely desire to do things together with their girlfriend or wife, the "fun factor" goes way up when we have someone to share adventures with.  Finding fun things to do should not be the sole burden of your man, you need to make suggestions and arrange activities too.

Here is how lacking creativity can affect your love life:

1. It puts pressure on the man to get his girl involved and will often be forced to go off on his own if she resists. Valuable time that could be spent together.

2. Boredom is a killer to your energy level and your over all health.

3. Paying someone or some place to entertain you can be very costly. Money that could be spent on shoes.

4. There is NOTHING on TV.  You can only watch so many episodes of Family Guy, The Office, Sponge Bob, and Oprah before you want to toss a brick at the screen. Two adults sitting in front of a tv not talking is not the way most people picture a loving relationship.

5. People unwilling to open up their minds and try a new activity make their partner feel isolated.

What you can do to change this:

1. Start, simply, by going on a walk together. parks, the woods, and beaches are your best bet. Also, there is no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing. Dress for success and get outside.

2. Shut off the TV and cell phones and go through old photos together. I would make sure you check them for anything that could start a fight before you do this...LOL

3. Invite some friends over, make dinner, and play games. A game I love is "story time". One person begins a story, stops, and then the person to their left picks it up where they left off, adds some dialogue, stops and the next person begins. This quickly turns raunchy and funny with most adults. 

4. Try one of his sports or activities and get him to try one of yours. You could also both take up a completely new activity to do together.

5. Activities like bowling or miniature golf may seem silly but they are fun if you suck at it. Again, this is something you can do as a couple or with friends.

6. Dancing. Nightclubs are a place most guys go to get laid and girls go to show off but if the music is pumping and you go as a couple you can have a lot of fun.

There are people who would kill to have an able body and the free time to go out and have fun, you owe it to yourself to actively demonstrate you appreciate life by getting involved, by entertaining yourself.

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